Why Risk It?

I love you and want to trust you completely.  I don't want any doubt in my heart about you.  I know you love Allah and want to please Him.  But don't you realize that if you lie all that is jeopardized? I want my love for you to grow for the sake of Allah because you love me for His sake.  We pray together and that love grows.  But don't you realize that if yo...

Make Up For That

From the time my church banned the wearing of make-up, its purpose and uses have been a topic of reflection for me.  Why do women wear make-up?  "Make-up" is an interesting word indeed calling to mind fantasy and some sort of enhancement.  This leads one to wonder and what kind of fantasy and what form of enhancement is being sought.  What compels one to cover up the...

Consider the Source

As it is our duty to abide by this wisdom, it is our responsibility to support forms of media that adhere to this standard and abandon those that don’t. So let us consider the source of our news and entertainment. Let us be conscious of the messages being conveyed. Let us establish good and forbid evil in the best of ways in every aspect of our lives including the media. Tenth ...

Keeping in Touch

It had been a long week already, and it was only Wednesday.  I was exhausted.  But for a long time, I had been trying to arrange for some activity that my teenage daughter and I could do together.  When she accepted to start English riding lessons, I was thrilled to have the chance to spend time with her and work with such an exquisite animal.  And even though some might say t...

Five Little Fingers

It had been a warm summer day in Istanbul when we arrived at the home of a family we had long wanted to visit.  It was late afternoon.  Stepping onto the patio of their ground floor condominium, we were greeted by an open door in anticipation of our arrival, the laughter of a precious four year old being chased by her two older sisters, and then the sincere greetings of peace from their...

The Best News

When I arrived at the class, some students had already taken their seats.  Finding an empty place near the front next to a seat someone had saved with her jacket, I sat down.  A short time later, an elder lady came in and sat beside me, introduced herself, and had just started asking about me when another younger lady in her late twenties walked into the room and over to us looking a bi...

The Final Countdown

  The first snows have fallen on the mountaintops.  Cold winds have started to blow.  Sweaters and coats have been pulled out and little by little put to use again.  The leaves have turned from green to gold and snapped loose by the torrents of icy gusts. Winter has arrived. For many in the world that means "it's party time".  Decorations go up. Trees are ad...

Stopping in Time

Final check.  Okay got a red light. Plug it in. Trring... green light flashing... Trring Trring.  It just never seems to stop.  It's late, and he's had enough.  Finally, he let's his weary head rest on the pillow deciding to ignore the incoming emails on his work cell phone.  The alarm goes off, and he wakes to another day in a grueling month of constant inter...